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Rod Stryker, author, "The Four Desires"

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Rod Stryker is the founder of ParaYoga and the author of The Four Desires: Creating a Life of Purpose, Happiness, Prosperity, and Freedom. He also blogs for The Huffington Post.

Rod is widely considered to be one of the preeminent yoga, tantra, and meditation teachers in the United States.

He is renowned for his depth of knowledge, practical wisdom, and unique ability to transmit the deepest aspect of the teachings and practices to modern audiences and students from all walks of life. Rod has taught for more than thirty years, training teachers and leading corporate seminars, yoga retreats, and workshops throughout the world.

Stryker began his intensive study and practice of yoga, at the age eighteen. Two years later he began a nearly two-decade-long apprenticeship with internationally renowned Yoga master Kavi Yogiraj Mani Finger and his son, Yogiraj Alan Finger.

Eventually, he would become his teachers’ only American disciple to be given the title Yogiraj, master of Yoga. Rod met his current teacher, Pandit Rajmani Tigunait Ph.D., spiritual head of the Himalayan Institute, in 1999.

Acclaimed as a leading voice for the ancient traditions, accomplished Yogi, teacher, lecturer, and writer, Rod has a down-to-earth approach informed as much by his mastery of the sublime teachings, as it is by his love of life and devotion to his wife and four children. Rod lives with his family in Colorado.

For more information, visit www.rodstryker.com.

Many people prefer to play it safe when it comes to business matters. Are you willing to take risks in the pursuit of entrepreneurial success?”

– Steven Schussler

Part of your destiny is to live in the zone of maximum satisfaction.”

– Martha Beck

Great minds discuss ideas. Average minds discuss events. Small minds discuss people.”

– Eleanor Roosevelt

It is easier to fight for one’s principles than to live up to them.”

– Alfred Adler

We never know how high we are
 till we are called to rise;
 And then, if we are true to plan,
 Our statures touch the skies.”

– Emily Dickinson

No longer talk at all about the kind of man a good man ought to be, but be such.”

– Marcus Aurelius Antoninus

Nothing is a mistake. There’s no win and no fail. There’s only make.”

– Corita Kent

Of course there is no formula for success except perhaps an unconditional acceptance of life and what it brings.”

– Arthur Rubinstein

When you are asked if you can do a job, tell ‘em, ‘Certainly I can!’ Then get busy and find out how to do it.”

– Theodore Roosevelt

Ambition is the germ from which all growth of nobleness proceeds.”

– Thomas Dunn

Passion makes perfect.”

– Eugene Biro

You must have chaos within you, to create a dancing star.”

– Frederic Nietzsche

Ripeness is all.”

– William Shakespeare

Whatever you do may seem insignificant, but it is most important that you do it.”

– Gandi

Spend the afternoon. You can’t take it with you.”

– Annie Dillard

‎No one is useless in this world who lightens the burden of another.”

– Charles Dickens

When I was younger I thought success was being a star, driving nice cars, having groupies. But today I think the most important thing is to live your life with integrity, be an honest and compassionate person, and contribute in some way.”

– Ellen DeGeneres

We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as impossible situations.”

– Charles R. Swindoll

That which does not kill us makes us stronger.”

– Friedrich Nietzsche

A man is a success if he gets up in the morning and goes to bed at night and in between does what he wants to do.”

– Bob Dylan

Try not to become a man of success but rather to become a man of value.”

– Albert Einstein

The only dream worth having is to live while you’re alive and die only when you’re dead.”

– Arundhati Roy

Success is about finding a livelihood that brings joy, self-sufficiency, and a sense of contributing.”

– Anita Roddick

It is to no purpose to turn away from the real nature of the affair because the honor of its elements excites repugnance.

– Carl von Clausewitz, On War

If your success is not on your own terms, if it looks good to the world but does not feel good in your heart, it is not success at all.”

– Anna Quindlen

They who give have all things. They who withhold have nothing.”

– Hindu Proverb

Opportunity is missed by most people because it is dressed in overalls and looks like work.”

– Thomas Edison

It is not in the stars to hold our destiny but in ourselves.”

– William Shakespeare

The world I believed in, back in my most innocent, uninformed, childish mind—is real.”

– Martha Beck

That man is richest whose pleasures are the cheapest.”

– Henry David Thoreau

Entrepreneurs need to search purposefully for the sources of innovation that indicate opportunities for success.”

– Peter F. Drucker

What is the point of having free will if one cannot occasionally spit in the eye of destiny?”

– Jim Butcher, White Night

Try not to become a man of success but rather try to become a man of value.”

– Albert Einstein

The true entrepreneur is a doer, not a dreamer.”

– Nolan Bushnell, founder, Chuck E. Cheese's

A discovery is said to be an accident meeting a prepared mind.”

– Albert Szent-Gyorgyi

Think of yourself as on the threshold of unparalleled success. A whole, clear, glorious life lies before you. Achieve! Achieve!”

– Andrew Carnegie

I don’t know the key to success, but the key to failure is trying to please everybody.”

– Bill Cosby

Think of yourself as on the threshold of unparalleled success. A whole, clear, glorious life lies before you. Achieve! Achieve!”

– Andrew Carnegie

You have enemies? Good. That means you’ve stood up for something, sometime in your life.”

– Winston Churchill

Just don’t give up trying to do what you really want to do.
Where there is love and inspiration, I don’t think you can go wrong.”

– Ella Fitzgerald

The follow-your-gut mentality of the entrepreneur has the potential to take you anywhere you want to go or run you right out of business.”

– Bill Rancic, "The Apprentice"

The man who acquires the ability to take full possession of his own mind may take possession of anything else to which he is justly entitled.”

– Andrew Carnegie

Hope sees the invisible, feels the intangible, and achieves the impossible.”

– Helen Keller

Education is not the filling of a pail, but the lighting of a fire.”

– William Butler Yeats

What would you attempt to do if you knew you could not fail?”

– Magical

You can only become truly accomplished at something you love. Don’t make money your goal. Instead, pursue the things you love doing.”

– Maya Angelou

The gem cannot be polished without friction; nor man perfected without trials.”

– Chinese proverb

Women once had the goal of being Superwoman; I think most of us now simply strive to have a super day.”

– Author, Activist Lee Woodruff

Almost anyone can start a community, but it takes real talent and commitment to get people to show up and keep coming back.”

– Andy Sernovitz

‎That which grows fast withers as rapidly; that which grows slowly endures.”

– J.G. Holland, novelist

If you were independently wealthy and never had to work a day in your life, would you still choose to spend your time attempting to become a successful entrepreneur?”

– Steven Schussler

Do not say, ‘why were the former days better than these,’ for it is not from wisdom that you ask this.”

– Ecclesiastes, 7:10

My goal was to tell the life side of the story. We have become a nation of voyeurs that expect sensationalism, and that offends me.”

– Kathleen Jo Ryan

There are risks and costs to a program of action. But they are far less than the long-range risks and costs of comfortable inaction.”

– JFK

Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do.”

– Mark Twain

Happiness is an attitude. We either make ourselves miserable, or happy and strong. The amount of work is the same.”

– Francesca Reigle

My task is really not to change myself but to become familiar with who I am.”

– Maureen Cook

It is only with the heart that one can see rightly,
what is essential is invisible to the eye.”

– Antoine de Saint-Exupéry

Nurture your mind with great thoughts; to believe in the heroic makes heroes.”

– Benjamin Disraeli

Who cares if my glass is half empty or half full; I still have something to drink.”

– Optimism rules

There is a crack in everything, that’s how the light gets in.”

– Leonard Cohen

Don’t follow your dreams. Chase them.”

– Richard Dumb

Confidence is the most important thing you can teach someone… if you can teach them confidence, you don’t have to teach them anything else.”

– Vin Diesel

The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am, then I can change.”

– Carl Rogers

Change is a math formula. Change happens when the cost of the status quo is greater than the risk of change.”

– Alan Webber, author, "Rules of Thumb"

Your own words are the bricks and mortar
of the dreams you want to realize.
The words you choose and their use establish the life you experience.”

– Sonia Croquette

A great secret of success is to go through life as a man who never gets used up.”

– Albert Schweitzer

This is the age when magical technologies make more and more radically fun ideas plausible, even easy. You’re only limited by your creativity.”

– Martha Beck

There are children playing in the street who could solve some of my top problems in physics, because they have modes of sensory perception that I lost long ago.”

– J. Robert Oppenheimer

Education is the ability to listen to almost anything without losing your temper or your self-confidence.”

– Robert Frost

Remember that it’s okay to ask for help when you’re stumped, because sometimes you really can’t be expected to handle everything alone.”

– Martha Beck

Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one’s courage.”

– Anais Nin

There are risks and costs to a program of action. But they are far less than the long-range risks and costs of comfortable inaction.”

– JFK

At the center of your being you have the answer; you know who you are and you know what you want.”

– Lao Tzu

Do not follow where the path may lead. Go, instead, where there is no path and leave a trail.”

– Ralph Waldo Emerson

You don’t love someone because of their looks or their clothes or their car. You love them because they sing a song only your heart can understand.”

– L.J. Smith

He who knows he has enough is rich.”

– Tao Te Ching

A warrior cannot complain or regret anything. His life is an endless challenge, and challenges cannot possibly be good or bad. Challenges are simply challenges.”

– Carlos Castaneda

A truly forgiving person is someone who experiences all the anger merited by injustice and still acts with fairness and compassion.”

– Martha Beck

Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional.”

– Dalai Lama

Happy are those who dream dreams and are ready to pay the price to make them come true.”

– Leo Jozef Suenens

Things don’t change. You change your way of looking, that’s all.”

– Carlos Castaneda

We make a living by what we get; we make a life by what we give.”

– Winston Churchill

The goal of Life is to make your heartbeat match the beat of the universe, to match your nature with nature.”

– Joseph Cambell

I may not be able to change what takes place, but I can always choose to change my thinking.”

– Michelle Sedas

I was taught at a very young age that you can do whatever you want to, but you have to make it happen — not just talk about it.”

– Kathleen Jo Ryan

The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am, then I can change.”

– Carl Rogers

Why am I whispering when I have something to say?”

– Eve Ensler

He who wants to tear down a house must be prepared to rebuild it.”

– African Proverb

Do you believe it is important to give back some portion of your wealth to support charitable causes?”

– Steven Schussler

You may ask me for anything you like except time.”

– Napoleon

There is little success where there is little laughter.”

– Andrew Carnegie

I don’t do very well without fear. There needs to be a part of me saying, ‘That’s going to fail,’ so I can prove myself wrong.”

– Harry Potter's Daniel Radcliffe

The critical ingredient is getting off your butt and doing something.”

– Nolan Bushnell, founder, Chuck E. Cheese's

We are all of us born with a letter inside us, and that only if we are true to ourselves, may we be allowed to read it before we die.”

– Douglas Coupland

There is only one success – to be able to spend your life in your own way.”

– Christopher Morley

‎The biggest flaw in our existing theory of capitalism lies in its misrepresentation of human nature.”

– Muhammad Yunus

Hold fast to dreams, for if dreams die, life is a broken-winged bird that cannot fly. Hold fast to dreams, for when dreams go, life is a barren field frozen with snow.”

– Langston Hughes

Patience and perseverance have a magical effect before which obstacles vanish.”

– John Quincy Adams

Always bear in mind that your own resolution to succeed is more important than any one thing.”

– Abraham Lincoln

    Articles by Rod Stryker